How to Talk Dirty in Bed An Expert Guide to Dirty Talk

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Using correctly they will make your lover addicted to your voice & drive him/her wild in bed. Let me start with a disclaimer, sexting is not for everyone! A lot of Christian couples don’t feel comfortable sending erotic pictures or talking about intimate themes when they aren’t together. The whole point of this post is that dirty talk is best when you act like your authentic self.

Building anticipation

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• Did any of these dirty talk examples particularly turn you on?
• All you have to do is ask your partner if talking dirty is something that they want to experiment with, and if so ask them the kinds of things that they would enjoy hearing from your dirty talk.

Like that good girl thing is such an interesting thing to me. When I think about the few times when you’ll tell me I’m a good girl, like I love it. I think that cultivating it with language, especially for folks who are audial, can be really powerful.

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Experimenting with role play is another way to break out of formulaic dirty talk and inspire more creativity. Couples can switch up the setting and pretend to be strangers meeting up at a bar or hotel, but you don’t have to orchestrate something elaborate if you can’t or don’t want to deal with the hassle in real life. You can also try on different sex positions or acts—like anal sex or learning how to squirt during sex—by including them in your word play first. Depending on your and your partner’s reactions, you might discover dirty things to physically explore later.

“Right there, that feels so good!”

Please record your message/question in a quiet room and use your phone’s headphones with a built-in mic if possible. AI (Artificial Intelligence) is a technology that is affecting every industry. Sex robots are gaining popularity by the day.

While being called a nasty name would be offensive in 99 percent of scenarios, under the right circumstances (bent over and horny), it can be hot AF. Dirty talk involves talking about sex acts with your partner in an explicit, arousing way before or while engaging in sex acts. There are also audiobooks available spotlighting many of the best erotic stories today, too. Check out The Best Women’s Erotica of the Year, Vol 5 and narrated by erotica writer and editor Rose Caraway. And if you end up falling in love with Rose’s voice, you’re in luck!

You don’t have to ram sexuality down his throat with your dirty talk. There is a misconception among women that they can’t be feminine, or that they need to be sexually aggressive to turn a man on. A man will respond to real, authentic, and even shy dirty phrases more so than explicit and aggressive sexual remarks in many cases. This doesn’t mean that some men don’t prefer really bawdy women, but don’t think that you have to be really outlandish to get his attention. Just whispering something fairly innocent in his ear like, “when we are alone, you have no idea the things I’m going to do to you,” is often sufficient. Then smile and look into his eyes, and he’ll know your sincere, but also incredibly desirable.